Ah, yes I thought you were asking about sim crashes. There is no option in general settings, but if you crash once in X-Plane 11.10, a popup will come up that has three options. You can continue with the wrecked flight, use new flight to open flight configuration to set up a new flight, and you can check a box to always reset flight immediately. If you check this last box, any time after that your crash will bypass this pop up and just reset to the nearest runway. Note that there is no way to change this setting once checked except by restoring default preferences.